Purchase flowers

In many cases, those who learn of the deceased’s passing will send flower arrangements to express sympathy to the deceased’s loved ones. However, these arrangements are typically small and might look undersized if placed right next to a casket or urn, which is frequently placed on a large pedestal. Also, if you choose to request memorial contributions in lieu of flowers, you might not receive any arrangements.

Types of arrangements

If the budget allows, you may consider purchasing larger bouquets, memorial wreaths, or a standing arrangement to serve as a focal point near the casket, urn, or in the room in general. You also might consider buying an arrangement to be placed directly on the casket at the funeral and burial site. Standing arrangements are larger displays of flowers which are placed on an easel so that they will be viewable at eye level. These displays are typically more elaborate and can include a spot for a photograph or be personalized with words, such as “father,” “mother,” “son,” “in memory,” etc.

Types of flowers

Most varieties of flowers are acceptable at funerals, but certain ones connote different meanings and sentiments, so that should be a consideration. For example, white lilies and white roses are considered symbols of peace and therefore are frequently used in funeral displays. Other white flowers, such as chrysanthemums and carnations also are popular choices for funeral displays, and these can be sprayed with color, if desired. Other flowers, such as yellow and pink roses are common, as well, with yellow roses symbolizing friendship and remembrance and pink roses noting elegance and femininity.

You also can ask family members if the deceased had a favorite flower or flowers, and use those. Keep in mind the choice is largely a matter of preference. If you have any concerns or questions, the florist you use will be able to offer advice and suggestions.